Splitting Ks

 I had an interesting, but fun weekend. So I've been seeing this guy for the last few weeks (from OkCupid). To hide his identity I'm going to call him K. Now K is a lovely man. He's tall, intelligent, athletic, funny, handsome and very honest. We see each other a few times a week and he hasn't been shy about his feelings for me. The first date he was telling me that he wanted to shut down his OkCupid account that night and focus solely on us. HOLD IT! Now of course that's what I want to hear. I want a man to be committed, but on the first date? That sounds a little fishy. I've been honest that I'm not ready to be someone's girlfriend, but that I like him and want to continue seeing him.

Things have been going well, but I have to tell him weekly that I'm just not ready for such a commitment. I've encouraged him to date other people. I was honest that I plan on dating others and to my dismay he was not to happy about that. This is 2015 not 1941.

Anyways, so we went to see a movie on Friday night. We caught the midnight show and this negro was snoring beside me. I had to shake him a few times to wake up. SMH. Saturday we went to this club bob Bar in lower Manhattan. Now that club was bangin'. The music was on point. Now the place is very small, but it had all the magical ingredients for a good ass time. We were dancing like it was 1999. And I guess I went down too low, because this boy's pants split. No joke. He had the hugest hole right where his ass was. I felt bad for a second, then I couldn't stop laughing. I let him stay the night because it was so late and he was very respectful and didn't try any funny business.

We hung out a little Sunday morning/afternoon before he headed home. I think it was a successful weekend. I didn't plan on spending the entire weekend with him, but it just played out that way. I really do like him, but I'm new to this dating thing and I want to make sure I'm sure I'm sure I'm sure. You know?